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Three Types
of Laughter
[During his discourses on the AKSHYA UPANISHAD
Osho explained the place and significance of laughter in human life.]
...Thirdly, it has to be understood that there
are three types of laughter. The first is when you laugh at someone else. This
is the meanest, the lowest, the most ordinary and vulgar when you laugh at the
expense of somebody else. This is the violent, the aggressive, the insulting
type. Deep down in this laughter there is always a feeling of revenge.
The second type of laughter is when you laugh at
yourself. This is worth achieving. This is cultured. And this man is valuable
who can laugh at himself. He has risen above vulgarity. He has risen above lowly
instincts -- hatred, aggression, violence. And the third is the last -- the
highest. This is not about anybody -- neither the other nor oneself.
The third is just Cosmic. You laugh at the whole
situation as it is. The whole situation, as it is, is absurd -- no purpose in
the future, no beginning in the beginning. The whole situation of Existence is
such that if you can see the Whole -- such a great infinite vastness moving
toward no fixed purpose, no goal -- laughter will arise. So much is going on
without leading anywhere; nobody is there in the past to create it; nobody is
there in the end to finish it. Such is whole Cosmos -- moving so beautifully, so
systematically, so rationally. If you can see this whole Cosmos, then a laughter
is inevitable.
I
have heard about three monks. No names are mentioned, because they never
disclosed their names to anybody. They never answered anything. In China, they
are simply known as the three laughing monks. And they did only one thing: they
would enter a village, stand in the market place and start laughing. They would
laugh with their whole being and suddenly people would become aware. Then others
would also get the infection and a crowd would gather. The whole crowd would
start laughing just because of them. What was happening? The whole town would
get involved. Then they would move to another town.
They were loved very much. That was their only
sermon, their only message; that laugh. And they would not teach; they would
simply create a situation. Then it happened that they became famous all over the
country. Three laughing monks. All of China loved them, respected them. Nobody
had ever preached in such a way that life must be just a laughter and nothing
else. They were not laughing at anyone in particular. They were simply laughing
as if they had understood the Cosmic joke. And they spread so much joy all over
China without using a single word. People would ask for their names, but they
would simply laugh. So that became their name -- the three laughing monks.
Then they grew old. And while staying in one
village. one of the three monks died. The whole village became very much
expectant because they thought that when one of them had died, the other two
would surely weep. This must be worth seeing because no one had ever seen these
people weeping. The whole village gathered. But the two monks were standing
beside the corpse of the third and laughing -- such a belly laugh. So the
villagers asked them to explain this. So for the first time, the two monks spoke
and said, "We are laughing because this man has won. We were always
wondering as to who would die first and this man has defeated us. We are
laughing at our defeat and his victory. Also he lived with us for many years and
we laughed together and we enjoyed each other's togetherness, presence. There
can be no better way of giving him the last send off. We can only laugh."
But the whole village was sad. And when the dead
monk's body was put on the funeral pyre, then the village realized that the
remaining two monks were not the only ones who were joking, the third who was
dead was also laughing. He had asked his companions not to change his clothes.
It was conventional that when a man died they changed his dress and gave a bath
to the body. So the third monk had said, "Don't give me a bath because I
have never been unclean. So much laughter has been in my life that no impurity
can accumulate, can come to me. I have not gathered any dust. Laughter is always
young and fresh. So don't give me a bath and don't change my clothes."
So just to respect his wishes, they did not
change his clothes. And when the body was put to fire, suddenly they became
aware that he had hidden some Chinese fire-works under his clothes and they had
started going off. So the whole village laughed and the other two monks said:
"You rascal, you are dead, but you have defeated us once again. Your
laughter is the last."
There is a Cosmic laughter which comes into being
when the whole joke of this Cosmos is understood. That is of the highest. And
only a Buddha can laugh like that. These three monks must have been three
Buddhas. But if you can laugh the second type of laughter, that is also worth
trying. Avoid the first. Don't laugh at anyone's expense. That is ugly and
violent. If you want to laugh, then laugh at yourself. That's why Mulla
Nasruddin, in all his jokes and stories, always proves himself the stupid one,
never anybody else. He always laughs at himself and allows you to laugh at him.
He never puts anybody else in the situation of being foolish. Sufis say that
Mulla Nasrudin is the wise fool. Learn at least that much -- the second
laughter. If you can learn the second, then the third will not be far ahead.
Soon you will reach the third. But leave the first type. That laughter is
degrading. But almost ninety-nine percent of your laughter is of the first type.
Much courage is needed to laugh at oneself. Much confidence is needed to laugh
at oneself. For the spiritual seeker, even laughter should become a part of
Sadhana. Remember to avoid the first type of laughter. Remember to laugh the
second. And remember to reach the third.
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